Firstly, thank you for your good wishes on my previous post. I’ve a lot of catching up to do…
Now, I’m not going to get too deep and meaningful here about life balances, making time for yourself and so on, but having a few days completely away from my usual life has been BRILLIANT. Before I left, I’d had niggling anxieties about the journey and about being away from the children, David and home (daft, I know); I was exhausted and fretful from making sure everyone would be ok and that everything was organised in my absence. But, as soon as we arrived at our friend’s house and stepped out into the glorious sunshine, well, all my cares melted away. I actually felt physically lighter, the worries disappeared and I felt properly relieved, and incredibly happy.
The sunshine (beautiful and hot), the air (clean and clear), the smell (delicious and herby), the atmosphere (peaceful and relaxed), the house and garden (huge and fabulous), the company (kind and generous) – it was all utterly marvellous. I had five days of lazing about, sunbathing, reading, swimming, a little exploring, lots of chatting and laughing, and not a lot else. Perfect. A big part of what made it so lovely was that we were staying with our friend. She picked us up from the airport, drove us around, took us to great places that we probably wouldn’t have found if we’d been visiting on our own, and she thoroughly looked after us. It was such a treat.





And now I’m home. Back to the hustle and bustle of daily family life. The children were absolutely fine. Of course they were. We missed each other and time apart has made us (them) appreciate each other (me) that little bit more. Bonus! I feel restored and reinvigorated, raring to go, and I’ll never forget my five wonderful days in Andalusia.

Dearest, wonderful Sam, I haven’t commented on your blog before because although I read it rigorously, I have had too much on my plate recently to cope with responding. It has given me so much pleasure. I have loved the development of your plot and now the holiday away, which you so, so deserve. Need to come and see you soon – I need to see the garden in its autumnal bloom. Most importantly, I would love to see you.
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Debs! (I’ll call you xx)
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Beautiful photos, Sam x
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Thanks. There are loads more 🙂
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Paradise indeed. It is a gift I think to be able to leave your cares behind you when you are on holiday. Glad you had such a lovely time and feel restored, plus you’ve come home to some lovely weather!
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Thanks Sarah. It is lovely to come home to the sunshine – everything feels possible.
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Sam, I am so happy that you’ve returned to Kent and family, happy and recharged – and that you loved this place as we do; the girls (human, canine and feline) enjoyed you so much. Anna told me the morning after you’d left, that you ‘were like a fairy in our garden’…..Perfect, I thought. Thank you for coming. Mi casa es su casa.
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Ha ha, she is SUCH a poppet. Much love xx
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I’m glad you had such a restful and restorative time away. Your photos are beautiful.
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Thank you Jennifer. I highly recommend it (getting away and southern Spain).
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Oh, wow. It sounds so perfect. I am really taken with the flowerpots built into the walls, I like that. I could do with a holiday like that to be honest! I’m glad you had such a wonderful time. x
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Thanks Gillian. There were quite a few walls with pots in – really effective. I highly recommend a break like this if you can somehow manage to get away.
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It sounds utterly blissful, I’m so glad you had such a wonderful time. The photos as fantastic, great memories to look back on I think. CJ xx
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Thank you CJ. I have been boring everyone to death about how lovely it is out there!
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glad you,ve recharged your batteries sam,just what the doctor ordered eh ? its amazing what good a few days away can do ,lovely photos to ,glad your back though xx
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Thanks Michelle 🙂
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So glad that you had such a great time away! It looks like a beautiful place and a great way to recharge your batteries. I know what you mean about the worries though, and think that we all do it and it is quite normal! xx
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Thanks Amy. I do feel fully recharged! Long may it last…
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What an uplifting post! Your joy and relaxation shone through in your writing. It is really good to have a few days to just be yourself. I had a similar experience in the spring when I spent a few days in Florence with friends. The build up and departure were, to be frank, hellish, but once I was there, it was utterly marvellous, and I loved every second, and the joy of the home coming was also wonderful. So delighted it all worked out for you, and your family all coped without you for a few days. (Am very taken by the built in planters!) X
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Ah, thank you Penny. Florence is completely beautiful, isn’t it? David and I had a long weekend there a few years ago. I’d love to go back one day.
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I was relaxed by the time you got to the bougainvillea.. Bliss!
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What a lovely post – thank you for taking the time. Have a good weekend!
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Thanks very much. You too.
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Looks like you had a wonderful time away. Looks and sounds like the place and people were lovely. Welcome back!
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That does look like paradise! Glad you had such a good time and came back refreshed. Sarah x
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