Five on Friday

Thank you for the lovely comments on my previous post – it’s so nice to hear from you after such a long time away and it’s galvanised me to drop in more often. I thought I’d revive the ‘Five on Friday’ theme today, borrowed years ago from a fellow blogger (I can’t remember who). The challenge is to think of five positive things to write about to share with you, so here goes:

  1. My working week is now four (long) days, so I have Fridays to catch up on everything else and visit my mum, who is now in a nursing home about 30-minutes drive from here. I try to go in the morning, which is when she is generally at her most alert, although she is not usually able to string a whole sentence together; it’s usually me chattering on about what I’ve been up to, how the children are, what’s appearing in the garden and so on. We hug and hold hands, though, and there is a lot of love in those hugs. During my visit this morning, we were agreeing that parents most want their children to be safe and happy with their lot and she told me she would be happy with her lot if only she had a little car to run around in! This was so brilliant because a) it was a whole sentence, b) it made sense and was in context, and c) it revealed her dry sense of humour. As anyone whose loved-one is disappearing into a dementia knows, these rare nuggets of connection are extremely precious.
  2. Birthday celebration weekend for our girl ahead, the gifts ordered over the internet have arrived (phew) and plans are coming together. Our eldest son is coming home for the big day on Sunday, much to our daughter’s delight. All three kids have had their moments during teenage years when they rubbed each other up the wrong way, got into arguments at the slightest niggle and caused their parents much agro, so the fact that they love each others’ company now makes me incredibly happy.
  3. Yesterday was a busy day of in-person presentations and networking, which, not being a natural extrovert, I find exhausting; I have to wear my big-girl pants and channel my inner woman-boss. Despite that, it was wonderful to see many people in real life, several of whom I had only previously met in online meetings and it was brilliant to put faces to actual, real lovely people.
  4. I stopped off at M&S this morning to buy some soap and ended up also buying bread, pastries and hot-cross buns – walking past their bakery section is impossible…
  5. Finally, I doubt anyone can get through a day without thinking of our fellow humans coping with the horrors of war. It’s hard not to feel completely powerless and hopeless at the news from Ukraine. However, there are some heartwarming, incredibly moving examples of connection and love across borders – read this story and do watch the video (but have a tissue handy).

Peace and hope, my friends.

9 thoughts on “Five on Friday

  1. Lovely to see you back again, Sam – and so pleased you had a nice visit with your mum. Hope it put a spring in your step. And enjoy your weekend of celebrations! Happy birthday to your lovely girl!


  2. Glad you had a good visit with your mum. Teens getting along gives me hope! Although the middle and younger ones have been doing better over the past few days, which has been a surprise. I hope your daughter has a lovely birthday. I dropped into Tesco earlier and ended up with a packet of chocolate and orange cookies from their bakery. Which I absolutely deserve. I haven’t actually hidden them, but they are not that easy to spot while strolling through the kitchen 🙂 Hope you have a lovely weekend. CJ xx


  3. Enjoying your recent posts and loving the positive vibes. Glad you had a good visit to your mum. In this corner the sun has finally come out. At last. Have a good weekend. B x


  4. Hi I’ve just found your blog. I’m just getting back to blogging and enjoyed reading your post Five on Fridays. Tricky from Fast Blog took this over from Amy at Love Made My Home. Sadly both blogs seem to have disappeared along with many more. Take care, Cathy


  5. It’s wonderful to see your blog coming alive again. I’ve enjoyed keeping track of you on Instagram, but what a treat to catch up on your family.


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